"If what you are doing is not working, any other behavior is more likely to provide you with the desired reaction."
John Grinder, co-creator of NLP How many
Sometimes we happen to not understand a concept, and saying to our interlocutor did not understand, we are repeating the exact same phrase or louder or more slowly, as if speaking aloud, or modulating the best way to pronounce words they may acquire a different meaning.
's strange, but this is a classic example of "function": when they adopt a pattern of thought continue to apply indefinitely, no matter if it continues to bear fruit or not.
Thus, a trader continues to sell as early in his career, the university continues to study how to study in elementary school, or in relations there are those who still fall into the same behavior, only to be having the same disappointments.
thought patterns when they become non-functional patterns, some become very difficult to change. Thus, it continues to spin endlessly like a toy car on a track circuit, up to that clash, for speed or an obstacle, the car with splashes off. When you are lucky, the car remains intact. When you have not, but ... There
really need a 'clash' or a barrier to change a behavior?
Thomas Alva Edison, lightbulb inventor, has made many attempts before you get to success. In fact, one of his famous phrases is:
"I am not discouraged because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward."
But what would happen, however, if he continued to always behave as it did on the first try? Maybe we would not be in the dark, but he certainly was not giving us one of the most important inventions in modern history.
The economic crisis is even heard, but companies that are paying a high price are those that have not been able to create, innovate, but have remained firm in what they did 20 years ago. Education, research and development, are often neglected by imprese, in Italia in particolare. Oggi ci si rende conto, troppo tardi, che qualcosa doveva essere fatto in anticipo. Consideriamo anche che, paradossalmente, ci sono aziende che non solo oggi non perdono denaro, ma continuano a crescere, a lanciare nuovi prodotti e a guadagnare, come se la crisi non esistesse.
Di fatto, ciò che qualcuno chiama ‘crisi’, qualcuno chiama ‘opportunità’.
La soluzione ai problemi è alle volte molto semplice: fai qualcosa di diverso.
Se fai qualcosa di diverso non hai assicurato il successo. Ma se continui a fare ciò che hai sempre fatto resterai abbonato al fallimento.
Se notiamo che un nostro comportamento non ci porta da alcuna parte, evaluate the force of change and replace it with a more functional. We could completely change our result, as well as in the case of a failure we could always learn something new or meet someone with which to continue the journey.
Try new things, get new opportunities, attend different places, different people, traveling, doing a course, read something new, watching a channel you've never seen, look for inspiration in what even imagine. Open up a range of choices than the previous dive.
'There is nothing wrong' in the wrong. Rather, learn from each mistake to continue to improve, to evolve as a person, to grow.
Michael Jordan, memorable basketball player, says
"I'll have scored eleven times winning basket at the buzzer, and seventeen other times in less than ten seconds at the end, but I was wrong in my career more than nine thousand shots. I lost almost three hundred games. Thirty-six times my teammates I was wrong and I have given the decisive shot. In life I have failed many times. And that's why I finally won it all. "
not be afraid to make mistakes.
fact, have the courage to make mistakes. Just so you get what you really want.
From: www.lifelabcoaching.com
